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<p> 你说你要去浙江了，当时我就很吃惊，还以为你是要去当兵了，结果不是。没有想到你比我这个哥哥还要早一点去和社会打交道，去打拼天下。当然我肯定向你送上最美好的祝福，希望你努力地工作，把握机会，有所成就吧，不要到时候有灰溜溜地回来哦！哈哈，哥哥相信你不会的，小伙子，加油。</p>
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<p>其实首先听到你要出去的消息，我真的舍不得，舍不得你离开南充。我在想，我今年回去的时候就看不到亲爱的弟弟了，不能和你一起吹牛了，不能在一起耍。弟娃：10几年老，从小到大，我们虽然不是一直在一起，但是也应该说在一起是最长的，当然我们共同语言也很多。你还记不记得小的时候，那个时候你爸妈还在一起，我妈说那个时候你们有钱，你洋得很，还欺负我这个哥哥。反正我是记不得了，只记得你那个拥有一个多么幸福完整的家庭。后来慢慢长大了，你的家庭发生了一些变化，对你来说可能都改变了你的一生。我记得我那个时候经常欺负你，和你抢东西，仗着比你大就打你。因为小时候很好强，我们又都是独生子女…那个时候你一定很狠我吧。哥哥对那个时候所做的道歉哈…对不起！再后来，我们长大些老，我也意识到应该关心爱护这个弟弟，我很多时候也没有和你抢，但是可能仍然有时候我仗着哥哥这个身份欺负你了，只怪我太好强了…</p>
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<p>弟娃，还记不记得小时侯一起在乡下的时候，那时候人很多，玩得很开心。</p>
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<p>这些都是过去了，管他好与不好，只是我们怀念的资本吧。想家的时候也可以拿出来想想，但是最重要的是永远朝前看，因为我们都是男人嘛…</p>
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<p>虽然我也年纪尚小，虽然我经历不多，但是我觉得还是应该以一个“话婆子”的身份给你说些“废话”。外面的世界毕竟不同于家里，不同于学校，它太复杂了，太多诱惑了，你必须得学会成熟，勇敢得面对遇到的挑战。下面是我自己的一些话吧。朋友很重要，好朋友更重要。晓得你现在有耍得好的啥子兄弟呀这些，也许其中有的在将来就会变成你的对手，甚至敌人，对你耍计谋。这些人一定要小心哦，因为往往给你打击的是你身边的人。但是这只是极少数，总的来说，对待朋友一定要真诚，用心对待，这样你会收获很多的。面对诱惑，不该你得的就少去想，甚至不要想。人应该做到“禁欲”，这里的欲望不是什么都不想，而是不想不该想的。别人说做大事的人要有野心，这里的野心当然也不是什么坏事只要可以赚钱就去做，反正就是做自己应该做的和想做而且正确的嘛，我也晓得这个很难达到，甚至不可能达到，那就希望你像它靠拢嘛。</p>
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<p>说到欲望，就不能不说事业与女人。哎，好像我说这个还有点早，那我就把我觉得是正确的给你说哈嘛…我爸说：“男人要以事业为重。”这个肯定是对了，然后又有，一名成功的男人背后一定有一位啥子的女人反正肯定是好女人）。所以其实要处理好这个关系很重要也很难，我觉得去过说在社会上没有女朋友几乎也不太可能，但是不能为了女朋友或者耍女朋友而放弃自己的事业，除非她可以给你提供一个更好的。但是这样又会被人误认为是小白脸。反正遇到这类事慎重选择，然后做出了选择就不要后悔，相信自己吧，哥祝你在外头找个好女朋友，记住是好女朋友不是女朋友。然后在将来处理好工作和爱情的关系。</p>
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<p>哎，说得好成熟，也许还有点空洞，因为上面好些我也没有经历。但是都是我认真思考，和以前了解以及自身体会到的。至少不会对你有害吧。</p>
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<p>最后在说点什么呢，哥在凌晨给你这这封信。（也许也不能叫信）写到以前回忆那段，我真的舍不得，我眼睛湿润了…但是不是感伤，是对你的希望和祝福，好男儿志再在四方，虽然你并没有读大学，甚至都没有满17岁，但那又怎么样呢，不能阻碍你前进。老实说，我希望你有出息，但是并不希望你比我更有出息。如果我说了我希望你比我有出息才是假的。我为什么这样说呢，要是你比我有出息，那我这个哥哥哪里去找台阶下呢…满足我自私的想法哈。（窃喜）反正加油就是了…</p>
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<p>不多说了，都好暗了。</p>
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<p>我亲爱的弟娃，亲爱的堂弟，加油！</p>
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