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<div class="post-body" itemprop="articleBody"><p>也许我以前有的时候真的重色轻友,那是我还不懂。现在经过这么多事以后我才晓得,朋友至少和爱人(不是女朋友那么初级哈)同等重要,在某些方面甚至更重要。</p>
<p>         这一次经历了失恋就更加深刻的体现了这一点,当我感到沮丧的时候,当我感到无助的时候,当我感到痛苦的时候。是你们,一直都是你们来开导我,来鼓励我。对的一个男人真的应该拿得起放得下,可是有些时候做到这点对我很困难。因为有你们的关心,我才会慢慢走出泥沼。</p>
<p>        和朋友在一起的时候永远是放得最开的时候,我们啥子都可以不想,什么顾虑都抛开。想的只是现在就好。也许就是应该在一起的时候及时行乐。</p>
<p>        其实现在走进大学以后,真正更加觉得朋友的重要性。想想初中同学之间纯真的友谊,高中朋友间深厚的友谊,大学则是伙伴一样的友谊。每一样都难能可贵,我们需要的就是找到真正的朋友,那些关心你,不会出卖你的朋友。</p>
<p>有句话叫人生有一知己即可,而人生却需要很多的朋友,多多益善。每一条朋友都是一条路,这个世界便织成了一张大网。多么美丽的网。</p>
<p>        前几天和初中同学聚会,大家真的都成了帅小伙和靓妹了,一个二个都很不错,和你们聚在你们真的很幸福,那是久违幸福,三年多了,改变了太多,不会变的则是我们都是初零六级四班的学生。我们都是朋友。怀念那段简单的时光,也许我们以前都做得不够好,那就让我们以后多聚聚吧,亲爱的同学们,我们都要努力奋斗,我爱你们,希望明年的时候聚餐大家都来。</p>
<p>        高中,这三年改变了我的人生,虽然我这三年由于那个问题,让我三年都过得很痛苦,但是我还是相遇了我们伟大的25班,和最可爱的同学们。我们理科的娃娃就是乖,天天就是在教室里面学习,错过了好多加深友谊的机会哦。但是我们大家之间的友谊还是很淳朴的,感情还是很深厚的,我还记得我们高一时候的牛头山和那些什么什么牛哦。那段时光很快乐。还有足球队的兄弟们,虽然我脚法烂,但是我觉得我们还是多团结的,以后聚餐的时候一定要喝几杯。大家都在读书,都加油吧,五年后相信我们都是能干人。加油。</p>
<p>还有大学,软件工程的同学们,我们是相亲相爱的一家人哦,我们以后在一起的时间还很长,还有希望我们的足球队多踢球,培养哈感情塞。兄弟伙些,大家都是英雄。相信我们一定可以做出些成就把成大建设得更加美好(说大话了,哈哈)。</p>
<p>          还有我的小学的朋友们,还有那些通过网上认识的好朋友们。其实我觉得我们现在这个网络还是相对比较不那么虚假的,我真的通过这个网络认识很多朋友,恩,很到大家都聊得不错,我觉得只要有机会,一定要吧这些网络上的朋友变到现实中来,一直在网络上呆着没意思。当然美国的和台湾的当然希望不大。哈哈。谢谢所有的朋友们。</p>
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